It's not quite what we had in mind: Most of the martinis at Tini Bigs are $8, and more to the point, they're more specialty cocktails than martinis (Goldschlager has no place in a martini). Nevertheless, Tini Bigs is the kind of place where you're likely spill several drinks on your favorite Prada bag (or someone else's) in the process of collecting compliments and telephone numbers.
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Toi, the Baltic Room, Von's Grand City Café, the Pink Door and Wild Ginger.